Posted on May 18th, 2009 by
Do you feel it’s wrong for a man or woman, to date while their still legally married – but separated? Do you blame that person for wanting to move on with their life or that they shouldn’t date until the divorce is finalized?
I was reading an interesting post – on another blogger website. Do you feel its wrong to move on with your life, knowing your still married was part of the discussion. I personally do not feel it is wrong if you are in the process of a divorce. Now if you are still married and is doing nothing to get out of that situation, of course. How can you move on with your life is you are still married and are not taking any steps to get out of that situation – you can fall in love but you cant marry that person because your still married.
You can not blame someone for wanting to move on with their life. If they sit around and wait for a divorce to be finalized then they are letting their life go by. I believe every person deserves to be happy one way or another. The other person – can not get mad because you decided to move on with your life and you all are not together. I was in a similar situation about a year ago. Yes, I was dating someone who was and still is married to this day. He told me he was getting a divorce (which later on I found out to be a total lie). I just did not feel right at first knowing that he was married, and argued constantly with my mother about the situation. That’s how everyone look at it, how can you be with someone who is M-A-R-R-I-E-D! I did feel bad, but I mean they were separated or so I thought at the time.
I feel it is the other person fault they cant move on. You can not hold someone from doing what they want to do. You can not stop someone from cheating, stop someone from meeting new people, so of course you cant stop someone from moving on with their life. You look at it, and if you think the person who get pointed as the bad person, is the person who is in a relationship with the still-married person. Which I personally feel is wrong, its not like its their fault the person is going through a divorce – if it is they fault yeah I do believe it’s wrong. If they got with that person AFTER the fact, then I do not believe they have the right to be blamed for anything.
Posted on May 10th, 2009 by
I want to personally say HAPPY MOTHERS DAY to all of the mother’s out there.
Posted on May 9th, 2009 by
PLEASE VIEW THE SITE IN MOZILLA FIREFOX, ITS NOT WORKING RIGHT IN INTERNET EXPLORER!
Hello everyone. I really did not like my first layout, basically because it was a rush layout to get the site up in time. I want to welcome you to version 2.0. I absolutely love this version because on all my other’s sites, I’ve have always used celebrities on my layouts. With this site, I would like to use my own picture’s with inspirational quotes on them. I tend to find myself reading quote’s alot now a days!
Before I continue, I would like to say HAPPY MOTHERS DAY to all of the mother’s out there. I think being a mother is special. My sister and I could not find the right gift for my mother, which she never uses any of our gift’s anyways. So we just got her some simple things. My sister and her are going to this gospel thing for Mother’s tomorrow, to celebrate.
Moving on… I have not been up to much. Just working on getting my company started and getting thing’s done around the house. I’ll be alone this summer, My bestfriend moved to another city for the summer to work. I was suppose to go, But I did not feel the job was a great fit for me, and I did not want to be away from my family for so long. I’m still working on getting my nursing stuff situated. It’s been on hold for about 4 month’s now. My mother would really like my sister and I to work for our RN, which that is something I want to do. The medical field is also a great field, but you would just have to get used to all of the crazy stuff, because I promise the first time I worked with a patient, I almost broke my back.
As you can also see with the website, my side bar section is not finished. I’ll get around to fixing it soon, I’m also going to add a link exchange section so if anyone would like to be affies please let me know. I’m surely trying to get back used to having a personal site, seeing as it’s been 2 years, and since then I’ve gotten accustomed to the fan-sites thing.
That’s it for right now. Xox. Toya
Posted on May 1st, 2009 by
You know what you want and you’re not afraid to go after it. Success doesn’t scare you, as a matter of fact it intrigues you. When it comes to Success, you find money the most rewarding.
One thing, I know I want to be in life is to be successful. Whether it is me being an Registered Nurse or working in the field of music. I feel like being successful is something everyone should want to be in life. Epically with how the world is today, with the recession, it’s just so hard to try to do so much now a days. Even with the recession, I still take what I have, even if it’s nothing or a simple dollar and flip it to making it seem like it’s so much more. I’ve told my father the other day, I feel like I am rich. It’s hard out here in today’s society, but that does not mean that you have to make the worse of it. I spent my time, enjoying life doing things that I love to do the most.
I feel with the way thing’s are going in this world, you have either two choices, being successful or just being left behind. I feel sad when I see so many young children dropping out of school, killing each other and just doing dumb things. They feel like the only way to make money is to sell drugs. I feel like the only way you are going to make it in life, is if you put forth some effort into making that happen. It does not spare you’re time to hop up on the bed, and go out and fill out applications. You should feel better knowing that you attempted, and that you did something good with your time. Instead of sitting in the house, playing videos games, smoking weed and etc. and just letting your life to go waste. It’s going to come to a point where you’re not only going to need a College Degree for a good job, but also an High School Diploma.
I feel it’s weird when strangers and people whom I do not know that much, knows exactly what I am feel and what I am going through. They could just stare me in my eyes and just tell me the things that they know I need to hear. Yesterday, Someone called my house for my sister, and we started talking. I was not really saying much but she just kept telling me some thing’s that I needed to hear. Some of the things I remember her telling me are; Just hold on there, God see’s what you are going through. You have to go through the pot’s and ride over the bumps in the road until you get to where you need to be in life. God see’s your tears, feels your pain, and he knows your struggles. If you ask any one who knows me, I am not the type to ever let my emotions get the best of me. I try to be as strong of a woman as possible, no matter how hard I am hurting. I feel though as long as I keep the thought of being successful in my mind the more it’s going to become reality. I always tell myself to never have a dream; dreams can fade away. Instead set an goal; goals can go a long way, but they’ll never fade or go away!
I love reading other people stories about how they’ve become successful. It just makes me want to be successful so much more. It make’s me want to go out there and just do everything I have to do, with out complaining, to become successful. Well that it’s for this blog right here. I’ll probably edit and write some more to it later.
